BaldJean said:
If mine was a generelisation yours is a simplification Pf course even the Ilias has a famos male homoerotic relazionship (Achilles and Patroklos), but I doon't remember what word Homer used to describe that relationship. I will have to check (which will be horrible for me; I have forgotten most of ancient Greek. I had to learn it for my studies, as well as Latin, but I hardly remember any of it).
However, I have read numerous translations of The Illiad. And while there are plenty of adjectives used to describe the characters ('warriors,' 'heroes') or aspects of their personalities (think of all the adjectives used to describe Odysseus), I recall not one ever referring to Achilles as a "boy-loving man" or Patrolos as "adult man-loving boy." Since this behavior was considered completely normal in Homer's era (and probably up until Christian times) there was no need to describe either the act of the nature of the relationship.
These labels only become relevant when people wanted to start portraying them as anything other than 'normal.'
J-I-B