It is a well-thought out and intelligent article.
But.
See, my dad's been dead 14 years. There is not much I wouldn't give to have him here.
He didn't die of old age (which is kind of relative) or a rampant disease, but of incompetent doctoring.
An anesthesiologist who had not bothered to read his chart gave him Whichever Anesthesia before an operation and that anesthesia induced a stroke. Oh, he woke up. But he couldnt' talk, couldnt' walk. Wait --Daddy did so talk, he told a nurse to "piss off."
My father never swore, he must have been pretty goddam mad. I was.
I was disgusted at the level of care in the hospital and hospice both.
It's all about making the family feel better and to hell with the patient.
What you see at 4pm in a hospice is NOT what happens at 1am, believe it. I was pregnant that summer and too miserable (and fat) to sleep, so I'd go read to my dad at whatever time. When they said '24 hour care,' they lied.
Warehouseing people is NO answer. Keeping people alive because they have good insurance is NO answer. But hey, this is the US and we get that. A lot.
Nor is the US alone in substandard doctors. I am sure there are more than enough of them anywhere. My family just managed to get a 2-for-1 special on idiot doctors.
That's the trouble with medical (and legal and teaching) standards: they are set to the lowest level of competency. So anyone living outside a teaching hospital ends up with the guy who graduated 312 out of his class of 315. Yet, he is deemed "competent."
Oh, bullshit.
Yeah, I do agree with Sir Terry's views. Wholeheartedly.
I do not agree that legislation is the way to attain that goal. Any time the legislative process is set in motion, graft seeps in and special interest groups clamor for their needs to be met first.
I dont' know that there is one true resolution. Nursing homes are bullshit; they exist so people do not have the inconvenience of caring for those who cared for them, which is pure selfishness.
You're supposed to take care of your children, not leave them in day care.
If you can't do that, dont' have children.
You're supposed to take care of your parents when they get old and need help because they took care of you when you couldnt' figure out how to tie your shoes, let alone use a toilet.
So, yeah, I have a hate-hate thing going toward hospices and nursing homes.
A bit of help at the end? In a nursing home, a stranger, a nurse's aide with 2 weeks training, is not going to "help" anyone. An RN, maybe? God forbid, an MD should show at inconvenient time, say, more than once a week.
The lady who said she was "saving her pills" had it right. Dying quietly is an intensely personal decision, one NO medical personnel is qualified to make.
But, then I'd give anything to have my dad back, so what do I know.